We spend about a third of our adult life in search of the ideal man. But, even living side by side with a man, we still fail to understand what they really want. And the problem here is not at all in men, but in the fact that we, women, are arranged completely differently and, unlike the representatives of the stronger sex, tend to exaggerate and sharply react to meaningless abandoned phrases.
let's consider 10 interesting factsthat will help women better understand the psychology of men.
1. Almost all men are big children, so do not be surprised that they cannot imagine their life without cars, computer games and adrenaline. Men, like children, love to compete with each other and are catastrophically afraid to make important decisions.
2. Men love exclusively with their eyes, and this is a fact. And no matter how they deny and try to convince you that they have fallen in love with your pure soul and kind heart, you should not completely believe what was said.
3. Friendship of a man and a woman is a myth. No man will start friendly relations with a woman who does not outwardly attract him. Most likely, the so-called girlfriend was once an object of love for a man, and maybe continues to be. Therefore, in order to avoid family conflicts, it is better to initially let the man understand that you are against such a friendship.
4. All men, like women, want to be loved and need constant compliments and support. The more often a man hears compliments from his beloved woman, the more effort he will put into making her life happy.
5. Men do not like to obey and are terrified of being known as henpecked. To avoid conflicts on this basis, often emphasize the strengths of your man and let him make decisions for you two as often as possible, of course, within reason.
6. The average man cannot stand weak-willed and always aching women. And that's a fact. We all choose the most comfortable living conditions, and who likes to live with a whiner and a pessimist?
7. Men constantly repeat about freedom and personal space, but as soon as they get it, a new and absolutely opposite need appears - the constant presence of a woman nearby.
8. Men cannot give themselves entirely to women. The second half is only a part of their full and fulfilling life. In fact, for a man it is much more important to take place in life and take a worthy position in society, so you should not interfere with his desire to rapidly advance up the career ladder.
9. Unlike us, men hate heart-to-heart conversations and stupid questions like "what would you do?" or "what are you thinking about?" Women are used to living their fantasies and dreams of an ideal man. Men, on the other hand, do not understand our subtle mental organization, since they live by facts and solve issues as they become available.
10. All men are owners and terrible jealous, although they try not to show us this. And at the same time, they have a negative attitude towards jealousy on the part of a woman. Agree, quite unfair and in some way selfish behavior, but there is nothing you can do about it, you just have to put up with it.
This is not all facts about men, but if you take them into account, then you can quickly find a common language with them, and to some extent even re-educate.And then building a common life will not be difficult.